I'm too lazy to gather timestamped proof of the times I tried to give warning about blantantly fetishized ~(any, not just vore) being problematic media
if anyone cares enough to argue, I'm still willing to defend my stance and try to recall some examples of natural-feeling-explanation-y ways to go about writing some scenarios, to give more constructive criticism/feedback than "you can't do this/that" I'd rather ask "why not?" and provide alternate routes than leave them no way out