the only reason people like you don't like Gojo is because you don’t think he's suitable for the girls but gets treated as such. That's all there is to it. He is the main, every girl likes him even though he does nothing to try to impress them (which is wrong), and everybody thinks he's cool. Talking to these people that don't rate Gojo I realize that they have a real life hate for Gojo because they have that going on in their real life. They look at themselves as the main character of the harem yet their toxic masculinity are constantly being overshadowed by somebody better looking, kinder, and cooler. They watch a harem show and see themselves as ‘‘‘better male’’’ and that guy who's actually better than them, as Gojo, which is why they have such real world hate towards him. You are beta who are upset that they can't be the alpha, so in a series where you imagine Gojo seems like more of a beta than whatever you self insert at you can't handle it and your soft ass emotions come out. Ask them why they truly hate Gojo and they get so defensive and say something like "cause he's a wimb" but when they say that ask them what does that mean and they will start saying he is being kind, girls like him, and everybody thinks he's cool. You betas are projecting their real world insecurities onto an anime character. When chuds gets attention from girls, or is looked at as cool these dudes love it and cheer it, but when it's Gojo they roll their eyes and yell at the screen. Basically you don't like Gojo because he's the better man that they wish they were.